What Not To Do…
Just so you know, Devil Went Down To Georgia bombed this week. What were we thinking? That kid said he could play the fiddle.
Hey Kid, Want Some Candy
Today, I was walking through the cafeteria during lunch and saw 2 guys behind a table at the far end. I recognized them right away, because last week they were in the same spot, doing the same thing – standing behind the little table with an opened bag of candy, a few pieces falling out on the table and I went up and introduced myself. I found out they were from a Youth Mininstry organization (you’d know it if I told you), so I told them I was a YL leader. We talked about church a little bit, and then I went on my way.
Today, I didn’t have time to talk, but I glanced over at their table from time to time. I gotta tell you, I felt sooooo sorry for them. What a picture of why “go to them” ministry works and “come to me” ministry isn’t quite so effective. I think I saw a grand total of 2 kids talk to them in a 30 minute period.
I’m not coming down on them, because they’re just getting started and I know all too well how difficult & intimidating it is to go into a room full of kids you don’t know hoping someone talks to you. I remember feeling like that guy. Actually, I pray that I always feel a little bit like that guy just to keep me on my toes and make me remember who’s really in control. But, part of me wanted to go over there and kick them in the butt until they engaged with some kids. I wanted to fold up their table, push them to the middle of the room, and tell them to just talk to someone.Â
Seriously, what’s the worst that could happen? The kids might laugh at you. Maybe, but in most cases that won’t happen until you walk away. Just don’t look back.
I have to applaud their consistency. They came today, and they were here last week. Maybe they’ll be here tomorrow. There’s something to be said for presence. Sooner or later, maybe a kid will get dared to go to their table and talk to them, while his friends watch & giggle. But, I’d rather force the issue. You’re there to meet kids, to have an impact on their lives, to show them who Jesus is. Jesus ain’t sitting at a table with a big bag of Starbursts.
Jump in, fellas! It’s a whole lot more exciting.
What It’s All About
Chad Swanzy on the hardest thing to do in Youth Ministry…Â Good stuff!
RELATIONSHIPS.
it makes things messy
it makes things complex
it makes things beautiful
it makes us like Jesus.
The State Of Youth Ministry
Some interesting stuff here in Group Publishing’s State of Youth Ministry.